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I'm still struggling with this. I see my friends houses' and how much cleaner/organized their houses are and I just can't understand it. Maybe I'm still fighting my inherited hoarder tendencies (thanks, mom) but it's just, like, how does everyone not have clutter? How do I not have clutter? I do want to take this opportunity to "mass reply." I live in a pretty small apartment, so storage space inside the apartment is premium. I feel like if I were in a house it wouldn't be as noticeable (I tell myself but I feel like I would just fill that space, too, sigh - I'm not going to lie here but I have the WORST combination of materialistic and hoarder and it's... exhausting). Buy it:  Chris Cornell I Am Not Your Rolling Wheels I Am The Highway Not Your Carpet Ride I Am The Sky Shirt

Wash dishes properly. It baffles me how some people “clean” dishes and put them in the rack with food still caked on. I don’t understand, when you go to pack it away, do you not see food still on it? Do you not care? When you serve people with dirty cutlery do you not feel embarrassed? I’m triggering myself just thinking about it. This was a lesson I needed even at age 30. It’s okay to be the funny guy, it’s not okay to only be the funny guy. Relationships go much deeper when you lose the clown facade. Buy it:  Change The Game Red Line Radio Shirt

I think a better word for it is feeling threatened. Social anxiety gets compounded by the fact that you genuinely see strangers as "threatening." You try to suppress and deny it, but underlying emotions have a way of coming out in other ways. It's a major battle to overcome, but it's well worth the effort. I still have a long way to go to completely overcome social anxiety, but I've come a long way from how I used to be. I'm still waiting for the opportunity to shine with my knowledge on how to properly put out that kind of fire. For some reason my food never bursts into flame while I'm cooking. Buy it:  Strong Hand I Am Here Shirt

I would like to stress that it is also very important to apologise to children. Children are made to apologise all the time- "did you say that to your brother? Say sorry", "Did you break that? Say sorry". However, adults rarely apologise to children when they fuck up. So the child sees apologising as a sign of weakness and lack of control as they grow up. The word becomes a negative and so they struggle to use it as an adult. Show them the true meaning of the word and the positive effect it can have on the recipient by saying it back to them. Buy it:  Respect Chicago Cubs Postseason Shirt

Tbh I'm only now learning how to apologize and admit my mistakes cause my family never did that. We would all just fight and insult each other and after fuming for a little bit, go back to normal. Doesn't mean the resentment was gone. When I tried to apologize when I was 12 for saying something mean, my grandmother yelled at me that I simply shouldn't have done it in the first place and that apologies are worthless. I only now realize how unhealthy my family's behavior was and it is so hard to unlearn. I just have it ingrained in my head that apologizing is admitting weakness. Buy it:  I Don’t Need To Get A Life I’m A Game I Have Lots Of Lives Shirt

 I realize I did x behavior, and that had x and y effects on you/ meant you had to do x when you shouldn't have. I'm so sorry I made you feel xyz and here what I'm doing to make it better and how I will make sure it doesn't happen again. If you do not want to accept an apology you can just say 'Thank you for saying that, I know that was hard.' That also works for accepting them too; Saying 'No problem' or 'Its ok' excuses the behavior, which we don't want to do. Buy it:  4 Alex Gordon Kansas City Royals 2007-2020 Thank You For The Memories Signatures Shirt

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