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Not me, but someone I know split after being married for 4 months. It turns out the guy she was married to was a sex addict and had racked up 20 grands worth of debt from webcam porn and stuff like that. She also found out he had bought tickets to a sex party, and when she confronted him he ran away. They aren't together now, but she has to wait for them to be married for a year to apply for the divorce. Buy it:  Happy Cat Black Craft Ugly Christmas Shirt

He is now 26. Eventually he was able to build his life back up and get a new group of friends and a new career that he loves. We've been dating now for over two years. However, she still stalks him. On our first date she rang him (somehow tracked his number down). He got a new number this year, but recently she has been ringing him again. She even rang me. I have never met her, nor would I want to (I have never hit someone, but I would beat the fuck out of her). Buy it:  Awesome Bravo Alpha Romeo Kilo I Repeat Bravo Alpha Romeo Kilo How Do You Copy Over Shirt

Constantly calling him worthless and putting him down. Forced him to give her at least 70% of his weekly paycheque. Eventually he had enough and left her. That's when the worst part happened. She told everyone he raped her and physically abused her. Which of course caused all their friends at the time to abandon him. During the divorce she got all his savings ($7, 000). In an attempt to get him back she claimed to be "pregnant" but had a miscarriage a week later. This all happened when he was 19.  Buy it:  Premium All Wants For Christmas Is Bier And Tieten Shirt

Obligatory not me, but my partner actually. He got married at 18 to his High School girlfriend. It was really to escape his shitty home life, but he would come to regret it to say the least. Basically this girl was a complete monster. She was blind, which means she didn't work (even though she could). During an argument she stabbed him with a knife. She would physically hit him and call him names.  Buy it:  Hot Wine Lady Classy Sassy And A Bit Smart Assy Shirt

A cousin of mine would have her husband go out all night and sometimes come home late. Sounds pretty cliche, but turns out that he had been banging her sister AND her mom... She found out from her sisters Snapchat story and they eventually got divorced and she is now happily married with Joshua, her ex-husbands brother. Buy it:  Good My Kids Laugh Because They Think I’M Crazy I Laugh Because They Don’T Know It’S Hereditary Shirt

I got separated after 8 months. He was always a little unstable but I had the belief that love could work through anything. But he clearly didn’t, he got into drugs and cheated on me. I tried for months and he just grew colder and more distant. We fought really bad one night and he drove me to my parents house. I said “if you let me get out of this car there is no going back” and he did. And I didn’t look back. Buy it:  Hot Gamer Gaming Computer Geek Worst Nightmare Shirt

As i said, my friend's family weren't actually millionaires, and the best wedding and honeymoon they could afford (yes, they paid for everything) turned out to be not good enough for the groom and his parents. They bitched about wedding hall being not pretty enough, champagne not expencive enough, food not good enough etc. The last drop was the groom throwing a tantrum when it turned out their honeymoon villa on Maldives was standing on the first beach line and NOT DIRECTLY ON THE WATER like he'd wanted, oh the horror. The moment they got back she divorced him. Buy it:  Awesome Celebrate Gustavo Bou’s Late Game-winner By Buying This Shirt

When he proposed to me the second time and I said yes. The thought of getting married made me sick. I was miserable the whole time leading up to it as well as during the wedding. But I had convinced myself I had to do it so my daughter could have a father. Because if I didn't he couldn't stay in the country. I feel guilty over it still since I think he truly did love me but I just couldn't keep up the charade. Three months later it was over. Buy it:  Premium I Don’t Even Have A Pla Shirt

A girl i was friends with in school married a guy and divorced him 3 weeks later, right after coming back from their honeymoon in Maldives. It turned out that his plan was to marry a rich Moscow girl (they weren't millionaires or anything, but living in Moscow is hella expencive compared to small rural Russian towns where the husband came from, so any well-off moscovite is kinda rich in comparison to most of population) and chill for the rest of his life.  Buy it:  Pretty Golf My Retirement Plan Is On Course Vintage Shirt

Honestly, before we got married. I was so young and naive, I was sure I could help her overcome mental health issues with love. Seriously had no idea what I was getting into, was a huge eye opener of reality. I had a huge gut feeling I was wrong about being with her, but my pride got in the way too. Lust was probably the biggest role honestly, would have been divorced sooner otherwise. Buy it:  Good Make MTN Dew Baja Blast Available In Stores All The Time Shirt

I knew her for a little over a year but she seemed like an okay girl, once we married in the registry office she changed. In the beginning she said she does not want anything except my love and care, after the marriage that changed and demanded I buy her all sort of expensive things, which I didn't and she threw a tantrum to everyone. 1 day before the big wedding I said I don't want to marry her and canceled it, funny thing was the wedding was on the 4.2 and I had to tell everyone on the 4.1 that the wedding is not happening. Buy it:  Perfect I Can'T Hear You I'M Gaming Shirt Gaming Headset Shirt

I got married in 1987 to a girl whom I really only dated about 4 weeks over the course of a few months. It was a long distance relationship. The honeymoon period lasted maybe a month and then things started to go downhill from there. There were signs, but being young and bull headed no one was going to tell me anything. I thought I could fix everything. The reality was the marriage was doomed from the start. I was young and nieve. I was thinking with the wrong head. Next thing she was coming home late, and eventually not coming home at all. Buy it:  Nice Never Underestimate An Old Man Who Is Also A Samurai Shirt

Anyway, we eventually get to talking about it, and she tells me that she feels no obligation to take care of her health, her body, or her looks now that she’s married since she “isn’t trying to impress anyone”. I begrudgingly moved on at the time, weary of what was to come. By 6 months she had gained probably 40 pounds. By 8 months she was at about 60. She started getting drunk a lot more often so those alcohol calories really packed on mass. She never wanted to discuss any of it though. Buy it:  Original America Needs Public Health Shirt

About 2 months into my marriage, I noticed that my wife was quickly getting plump and thick. Now I didn’t marry her for her looks, but while we are young I thought we would both remain relatively healthy, if not for any other reason, so that we could continue traveling and exploring the world with ease. Buy it:  Funny Georgia For Biden Harris Peach 2020 Shirt

It happened to a good friend of mine. She came out to her unsupportive family, and started dating a girl with a kid. They got married after dating 5 years. Five months later, her wife tells her she's pregnant. Turns out, new wife is a meth addict who relapsed and had been sleeping with her drug dealer to get high. They were officially divorced 8 months after the wedding. Buy it:  Good Merry Christmas Happy New Year Text Art Shirt

Before I got married. I was lonely and valued myself about as much as a grain of sand. So, when someone showed me affection, I took advantage of it. I had a saltine cracker, but it was a 5-course meal at the time. Unfortunately, that saltine cracker tried to change me to what she wanted by use of emotional manipulation and gaslighting. My divorce was one of the best things thst happened to me. Buy it:  Premium President Joe Biden Inauguration Day january 20th 2021 Shirt

Within 6 months of marrying . Married my H S sweetheart- reconnected after not seeing him for 15 years, got married, then pregnant within 6 months and he says he wasn’t going to bring home a paycheck any longer. I was pregnant with my 2nd son 6 months after that, divorced with a 1&2 year old, now my sons are 26&27 and he never supported them. Buy it:  Original Pretending It’s Still Baseball Season Shirt

My brothers now ex-fiancé was planning on marrying and divorcing him after the wedding because of the embarrassment of calling the entire show off. Thank god he found out she was cheating beforehand. Her family was poor so my parents were footing the bill for flowers and a few other things. 5,000$ in deposits down the drain just for fucking flowers. What kind of psychopath picks an expensive wedding venue and flowers knowing they have no intentions of staying married. Not only that her family was practically going into debt to afford her lavish requests. Buy it: Hot Anta The Roling Stones Playing Music Merry Christmas 2020 Shirt

My wife and I had had problems before our marriage and it continued afterwards. It would get better and then worse in a cycle, usually my fault, got better with anti depressants but not perfect. We eventually grew apart and she found out she doesn't even like being in a relationship with a man. It's been about 2.5 years and we're splitting up, just waiting for her to have enough money to move out. We still love each other on some level and want to remain friends, so we'll see how it all turns out Buy it:  Pretty Biden Harris Finish 2020 Election Shirt

My cousin got divorced after 1.5 year. We all saw it coming. Not only were they a total mismatch but she got pregnant on purpose to make sure he stays with her. She openly admitted that. The divorce was smooth but the battle over the custody was long and nasty. Probably because she fell in love again and moved to another country leaving her 1 year old daughter with the grandma. Buy it:  Funny Xmas Dance Like Frosty Santa Rudolph Love Jesus Shirt

We both come from really religious families so we decide to get married at the courthouse. I took the afternoon off work (by then had an actual grown up job) and realized how little thought I had put into this day - I hadn't even shopped for anything nice to wear! I ended up wearing a skirt and a cardigan that I would have worn to my office job. While at the courthouse, his grandpa made a joke about how I could tell my second husband that my first marriage took place in "xyz city." I was appalled at the comment and it fueled the anger I already was feeling from realizing that I didn't want to do this. Buy it:  Nice Skeleton Don’t Piss Me Off I Will Stop Taking My Pills And Nobody Wants That Do They Shirt

My son's dad and I dated for a couple of years. I met him at work (retail when I was 16.) This was my senior year of high school. We ended up breaking up and almost a year later had a one night stand. I knew instantly that I was going to get pregnant from it (he didn't pull out, I wasn't on the pill - young and dumb I was!) I literally said to him "If I get pregnant I am going to kill you." I knew before I was even late, and a test confirmed it. Buy it:  Good Sorry Merica’s Full Trump Parody Of Shitter’s Full Shirt

Got married young, getting divorced young. We both were not mature enough. She broke my heart. It wasn't smart getting married so soon, but i was blinded by love. She was an angel to me and my family, but it turns out she wasn't an angel. She had dark secrets. I knew it was a mistake when she told me she cheated on me. That's when i realized it was a mistake. I just wish i wasn't so blinded by love for her to realize who she truly was. In a way, it's good she didn't want to be with me, because it helped me see what kind of person she actually was. Buy it:  Perfect Swimming T-Rex Hates Backstroke Shirt

 I was so in love with him he was literally my best friend but he changed as soon as we got married. I wrote him a letter in therapy about how hurt I was and he cut me off mid sentence and said “I can’t do this anymore”. I was SHOCKED. I just thought. Wow. I had a billion reasons to leave him yet he chose to make that decision. But I got up and left quietly. Buy it:  Premium Santa Autism Christmas Shirt

MIND YOU- when his uncle was diagnosed with cancer a few years back, I would leave work early to go help him and his cousin with cooking for his uncle and picking up around the apartment (and happily so- I would do that again to this day Bc that’s just the person I am). I tried my best to split my time between my family and trying to make him happy, I even threw him a massive bday party for his 30th to which he later said “that was nice but not what I wanted”. We went to couples therapy bc I said to myself “ if this is going to end I want to make sure I did everything to save my marriage”. Buy it:  Good Merry Christmas From Santa Reindeer Shirt

I (29 F)was with my S/O (30 M) for ten years and we got married in September 2017. November 2017 my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer for a second time so I had to be a big support for her and my family. My now ex husband was rip shit about it and was complaining I was spending too much time w my family instead of tending to his needs AKA cooking and cleaning like a damn housewife after coming home from work or treatment with my mom.  Buy it:  Funny Santa With Face Mask And Toilet Paper Christmas 2020 Shirt

It was that bad we had to take him to the er, all while his his new "bride" was to tired to accompany us. Fast forward a few ours and a couple of us take him to his hotel. We opened his room to find her being roasted by his best man and her bridesmaid. He stormed off and called it then and there. To make it even sweeter my cousin filmed the whole thing and sent it to her very religous parents. Im sure the loved seeinf the things their little princess loved doing and having in places. Buy it:  Pretty Peanuts Snooopy Peace Love Joy Christmas Shirt

Not my self but a relative. He met his "bride" a mere 6 months earlier. All was sweet for about 3 weeks untill she found out the depth of his mental instabilities and pockets to match, she used them to get everything she wanted, all while alienating anyone in her way. Come the wedding we all drag our selves along. By the end of the night and relentless speeches from the bride and inlwas everyone especially groom where well and truely plastered.  Buy it:  Awesome Merry Christmas Ya Filthy Animal Cow Shirt

After the honeymoon, having dinner before I had to go home (he lives in Canada, me in the US, and we were waiting to deal with the immigration stuff). He was eating fajitas and the way he was eating fajitas was so annoying to me that I wanted to stab him in the neck with a fork. When he drained our bank account for a 2 day bender, then came home where my little brother, his gf, and 1 year old daughter were living as well. You can hurt me all you want, but don’t come home in that condition around my 1 year old niece. Buy it:  Good Merry Christmas From Santa Reindeer Shirt

It wasnt. I knew what being married meant. I knew no matter the obstacles we faced we could face them together, communicate, get through it as a team and be stronger for it. That's what it meant to me. She was the one I chose for life, for better OR WORSE. Through the ups and DOWNS. I understood that. She did not. I deployed. She ghosted me for 2 weeks. Asked for a divorce after. Tried for a year to help her with anxiety depression everything. Brief moments of her not wanting this to end, always trumped by her friends convincing her I was some monster??? Buy it:  Funny Santa Seems Sus To Me Ugly Christmas Shirt

Pretty much on the wedding night. Got married to try an fix a broken relationship I'd been in for 9 years. Bought a house, the whole 9 yards, just no kids. Took me a 10 months to leave and never go back. Now happily married for a 2nd time, beautiful daughter. If you have doubts, there is no doubt. Everyone deserves happiness, but it takes work. Buy it:  Awesome Christmas Beer Lover Gift Funny Pun Shirt

While the divorce was as mean as the marriage, once it was underway, and especially once it was over I was a new person. It hits hard at first, but fuck it is worth it if you can keep your chin up. Got sober and met my person a few months later (actually while the divorce was being finalized). Realized that a wedding shouldn't be blamed for faults in the relationship, but it sure can uncover them. Pro-tip: if you're fighting about the wedding, it's not about the wedding. Buy it:  Nice Cute Santa Deadpool Merry Kiss My Ass Christmas Shirt

Woof. We both knew it was a mistake before we said our vows. Both were too bull-headed to call it quits. Big, expensive wedding, expensive condo in both our names, friends intertwined... you get stuck in something and think it's going to work once you get past the "stress" of the wedding. Both drank heavily, which didn't help the frequent fights. We separated about three months in to the marriage, and filed for divorce a few months after that.  Buy it:  Official Never Underestimate An Old Woman Who Is Also A Samurai Shirt

Not uncommon in a war torn civil war country where educating women is the last priority but she had lied to him about it. He knew then she was using him to get the rest of her family out but it took him a while to get a divorce because he needed grounds and she supplied that by getting pregnant by one of his co-workers. Buy it:  Premium I Just Wanna Play Bowling Face Mask Shirt

My cousin on his wedding day. Both fled a civil war and ended up elsewhere. They both asked a lot of questions about each other backgrounds before marriage and he thought they had the same life goals. On the wedding day she signed her name with a squiggle. The registrar had to show her where to sign. Because she could not read or write. Buy it:  Perfect Joe Biden 59th Inauguration 2021 US President Political DT Adult Shirt

 He would go thru my stuff and steal my anxiety meds and money. He would be drunk off his ass by the time I got home from work and would cry and tell me things from his past that he didnt tell me before we got married because he knew I would've left him if I had known (one thing was he tried to kill an ex's newborn baby for crying too much). We lasted 7 months. By then, I was so depressed and down, my only saving grace was my close-knit family talking me back up and helping me, emotionally, get back on my feet. Buy it:  Top Beer Funny Sweater Dilly Dilly For Christmas T-Shirt

Within the week after saying 'I do.' We were together for a year and a half before the wedding. His mood changed from sweet, loving fiance to "you're my wife, do what I say or I'll be the meanest person you've ever met." Turns out, he was an alcoholic and an addict. Buy it:  Top Los Angeles Lakers World’s No 1 Team Quality American Made Basketball Team Shirt

My best friend married a woman and he soon found out she was a raging alcoholic. Being the super loving and supportive husband/man that he is/was, he sank a lot of money into treatment for her. He'd drive her to meetings and to a counselor and made a big effort to really help her out, even if it meant a bit of a hands off approach. At the end of it and nearly penniless, they had a big talk and she had found out, in therapy, the root cause of everything. She admitted to herself and finally to him that she was lesbian. My heart broke when he called me to tell me all while he was crying. He has since remarried and moved on to have kiBuy it: ds and a fairly happy life. But, it bothered him so much, that I know it's damaged him, mentally. Premium Minnesota Vikings Griddy Shirt

Super late but.. we were on our way to the courthouse to get married. He threw the brand new cell phone I got him (650$ in 2007) out the car window and threw a fit that there was to be no photos taken and he wanted to get this over with. Absolutely no idea why I went through with it. Kicked me in the face with a boot cause I was cleaning something off the floor with a sponge I was about to throw away about a week later. His reasoning was he didn’t know I was going to throw it away and he used the sponge to wash dishes so it was gross. He never washed dishes. Buy it:  Original My Anxiety Is Chronic But This Ass Is Iconic Shirt

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While the divorce was as mean as the marriage, once it was underway, and especially once it was over I was a new person. It hits hard at first, but fuck it is worth it if you can keep your chin up. Got sober and met my person a few months later (actually while the divorce was being finalized). Realized that a wedding shouldn't be blamed for faults in the relationship, but it sure can uncover them. Pro-tip: if you're fighting about the wedding, it's not about the wedding. Buy it:  Nice Cute Santa Deadpool Merry Kiss My Ass Christmas Shirt

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Not uncommon in a war torn civil war country where educating women is the last priority but she had lied to him about it. He knew then she was using him to get the rest of her family out but it took him a while to get a divorce because he needed grounds and she supplied that by getting pregnant by one of his co-workers. Buy it:  Premium I Just Wanna Play Bowling Face Mask Shirt

My cousin on his wedding day. Both fled a civil war and ended up elsewhere. They both asked a lot of questions about each other backgrounds before marriage and he thought they had the same life goals. On the wedding day she signed her name with a squiggle. The registrar had to show her where to sign. Because she could not read or write. Buy it:  Perfect Joe Biden 59th Inauguration 2021 US President Political DT Adult Shirt

 He would go thru my stuff and steal my anxiety meds and money. He would be drunk off his ass by the time I got home from work and would cry and tell me things from his past that he didnt tell me before we got married because he knew I would've left him if I had known (one thing was he tried to kill an ex's newborn baby for crying too much). We lasted 7 months. By then, I was so depressed and down, my only saving grace was my close-knit family talking me back up and helping me, emotionally, get back on my feet. Buy it: Top Beer Funny Sweater Dilly Dilly For Christmas T-Shirt

Within the week after saying 'I do.' We were together for a year and a half before the wedding. His mood changed from sweet, loving fiance to "you're my wife, do what I say or I'll be the meanest person you've ever met." Turns out, he was an alcoholic and an addict. Buy it: Top Los Angeles Lakers World’s No 1 Team Quality American Made Basketball Team Shirt

My best friend married a woman and he soon found out she was a raging alcoholic. Being the super loving and supportive husband/man that he is/was, he sank a lot of money into treatment for her. He'd drive her to meetings and to a counselor and made a big effort to really help her out, even if it meant a bit of a hands off approach. At the end of it and nearly penniless, they had a big talk and she had found out, in therapy, the root cause of everything. She admitted to herself and finally to him that she was lesbian. My heart broke when he called me to tell me all while he was crying. He has since remarried and moved on to have kids and a fairly happy life. But, it bothered him so much, that I know it's damaged him, mentally. Buy it:  Premium Minnesota Vikings Griddy Shirt

Super late but.. we were on our way to the courthouse to get married. He threw the brand new cell phone I got him (650$ in 2007) out the car window and threw a fit that there was to be no photos taken and he wanted to get this over with. Absolutely no idea why I went through with it. Kicked me in the face with a boot cause I was cleaning something off the floor with a sponge I was about to throw away about a week later. His reasoning was he didn’t know I was going to throw it away and he used the sponge to wash dishes so it was gross. He never washed dishes. Buy it:  Original My Anxiety Is Chronic But This Ass Is Iconic Shirt

I actually read an articles ages ago (can’t find it. It was in a magazine so google isn’t helping) that supports this idea. I don’t remember the specifics but it argued that you should always trying being off hormones before you marry someone. It claimed that hormones altered your state of mind enough that you might settle down prematurely with someone or continue a relationship that you should have ended. Buy it:  Hot I Can't Believe I Paused My Game For This Gamer Gift Shirt

I was with a guy for all of my young adult life. Over the years things had gotten not so great. I was in denial about this. 7 years in (and six months married) I felt like that was just how relationships were. So many married people talk about “compromise” and having to “work at” a relationship. I thought that is what I was doing. In truth that was ALL I was doing. I was also very complacent. I tiptoed around ideas and didn’t voice opinions I knew would be fought. Buy it:  Original I Just Want To Drink Wine And Bake Christmas Cookies Shirt

Even said there was a different guy before him. She’s still with the guy and even got his name tattooed on her arm weeks after our split. As much as it sucks, atleast I found out before we got married and me going through years more of that. So I’m sorry for everyone on this thread that didn’t work out, but atleast you got out of a bad situation and saved years of misery. Buy it:  Perfect I Don’t Need Therapy I Just Need To Go Kayaking Vintage Shirt